For those who have kids that might have just shipped to Great Lakes - Navy Dads2024-03-28T08:54:57Zhttps://navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?commentId=2150375%3AComment%3A344700&feed=yes&xn_auth=notag:navydads.com,2013-08-13:2150375:Comment:3488462013-08-13T02:43:04.800ZStephanie Brawnerhttps://navydads.com/profile/StephanieBrawner
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<p></p> Well we thought our son would…tag:navydads.com,2013-08-03:2150375:Comment:3471662013-08-03T00:35:07.239ZScott Himmelspachhttps://navydads.com/profile/DonaldScotthimmelspach
<p>Well we thought our son would call us when he passed Battle Stations, but he called his girlfriend instead. It's a little disappointing to not get to hear it from him. But I guess in the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter. What matters is he is a Sailor in the United States Navy!!!! He also received a Marksman Award. He will be going to A school in San Antonio for Master at Arms. We couldn't be prouder. Ship 11 Div 291, they will PIR next Friday 8/9, can't wait to see…</p>
<p>Well we thought our son would call us when he passed Battle Stations, but he called his girlfriend instead. It's a little disappointing to not get to hear it from him. But I guess in the grand scheme of things it doesn't really matter. What matters is he is a Sailor in the United States Navy!!!! He also received a Marksman Award. He will be going to A school in San Antonio for Master at Arms. We couldn't be prouder. Ship 11 Div 291, they will PIR next Friday 8/9, can't wait to see him.Thanks to everyone on this site that helped us get through this.</p> That is fantastic Michael. Ha…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-20:2150375:Comment:3452442013-07-20T21:46:19.286ZRoger Reedhttps://navydads.com/profile/RogerReed
<p>That is fantastic Michael. Having that PIR date has been a big relief for me. I see the finish line as I am sure our sailors are seeing it also. I can't wait to see the transformation in my son as well.<br></br> <br></br> <cite>Michael Huff said:</cite></p>
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<p>That is fantastic Michael. Having that PIR date has been a big relief for me. I see the finish line as I am sure our sailors are seeing it also. I can't wait to see the transformation in my son as well.<br/> <br/> <cite>Michael Huff said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?id=2150375%3ATopic%3A343347&page=2#2150375Comment344996"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>I received my son's letter today. He is assigned to Ship 02, Div 943. PIR is on Sept 6th. Just purchased my airline tickets and reserved a rental car and hotel room. Definitely looking forward to seeing the transformation in my son. <br/> <cite>Michael Huff said:</cite></p>
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<blockquote cite="http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?page=2&commentId=2150375%3AComment%3A344885&x=1#2150375Comment344885"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>I just received my son's form letter. He has been assigned to Ship 03 Div 338 with a PIR date set at September 6. WOO HOO !!!</p>
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</blockquote> I received my son's letter to…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-19:2150375:Comment:3449962013-07-19T23:16:24.078ZMichael Huffhttps://navydads.com/profile/MichaelHuff
<p>I received my son's letter today. He is assigned to Ship 02, Div 943. PIR is on Sept 6th. Just purchased my airline tickets and reserved a rental car and hotel room. Definitely looking forward to seeing the transformation in my son. <br></br> <cite>Michael Huff said:…</cite></p>
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<p>I received my son's letter today. He is assigned to Ship 02, Div 943. PIR is on Sept 6th. Just purchased my airline tickets and reserved a rental car and hotel room. Definitely looking forward to seeing the transformation in my son. <br/> <cite>Michael Huff said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?xg_source=activity&id=2150375%3ATopic%3A343347&page=2#2150375Comment344841"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>Outstanding Roger, Hopefully, I will receive my letter soon.<br/> <br/> <cite>Roger Reed said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?page=2&commentId=2150375%3AComment%3A344885&x=1#2150375Comment344885"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>I just received my son's form letter. He has been assigned to Ship 03 Div 338 with a PIR date set at September 6. WOO HOO !!!</p>
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</blockquote> Outstanding Roger, Hopefully,…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-19:2150375:Comment:3448412013-07-19T18:12:26.357ZMichael Huffhttps://navydads.com/profile/MichaelHuff
<p>Outstanding Roger, Hopefully, I will receive my letter soon.<br/> <br/> <cite>Roger Reed said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?page=2&commentId=2150375%3AComment%3A344885&x=1#2150375Comment344885"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>I just received my son's form letter. He has been assigned to Ship 03 Div 338 with a PIR date set at September 6. WOO HOO !!!</p>
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<p>Outstanding Roger, Hopefully, I will receive my letter soon.<br/> <br/> <cite>Roger Reed said:</cite></p>
<blockquote cite="http://www.navydads.com/forum/topics/for-those-who-have-kids-that-might-have-just-shipped-to-great?page=2&commentId=2150375%3AComment%3A344885&x=1#2150375Comment344885"><div><div class="xg_user_generated"><p>I just received my son's form letter. He has been assigned to Ship 03 Div 338 with a PIR date set at September 6. WOO HOO !!!</p>
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</blockquote> I just received my son's form…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-19:2150375:Comment:3448852013-07-19T03:55:42.794ZRoger Reedhttps://navydads.com/profile/RogerReed
<p>I just received my son's form letter. He has been assigned to Ship 03 Div 338 with a PIR date set at September 6. WOO HOO !!!</p>
<p>I just received my son's form letter. He has been assigned to Ship 03 Div 338 with a PIR date set at September 6. WOO HOO !!!</p> All I can say is WOW- Well wr…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-18:2150375:Comment:3447202013-07-18T16:06:10.067ZJerrihttps://navydads.com/profile/Jerri
<p>All I can say is WOW- Well written and I needed to read that. Thanks from a Navy Mom. I think this is week #4, I got the box, got the form letter, got a call, got a letter, then last Thursday I got another call indicating she didn't think she would be able to have another call. At that call she indicated she "couldn't" march and she almost got sent home because she didn't make her run time---in the same breath she said she got put on "Ship Staff" which I later found out was a "good…</p>
<p>All I can say is WOW- Well written and I needed to read that. Thanks from a Navy Mom. I think this is week #4, I got the box, got the form letter, got a call, got a letter, then last Thursday I got another call indicating she didn't think she would be able to have another call. At that call she indicated she "couldn't" march and she almost got sent home because she didn't make her run time---in the same breath she said she got put on "Ship Staff" which I later found out was a "good thing". At first, I had thought that "Ship Staff" was some form of punishment for not making the run time. Thanks to all you guys on here that are letting a Navy Boot Camp Mom hang out and I appreciate all of your insight and input. Just have to change my settings so that I know when there is a new comment or reply.</p> This my friends and Fellow na…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-18:2150375:Comment:3448492013-07-18T14:09:18.073ZNavyDads Admin, Timhttps://navydads.com/profile/Tim25
<p>This my friends and Fellow naval parents is the whole reason that this site was started. So that new parents coming into fold could read and share experiences that they can look forward to. I myself went through all of the same exact emotions and feelings when my son left for boot Camp 5 years ago. He and his brother wold go spend a month with my mom during the summer but they were only 60 miles away and could call any time they wanted to. When Trevor left for Basic, even though he was…</p>
<p>This my friends and Fellow naval parents is the whole reason that this site was started. So that new parents coming into fold could read and share experiences that they can look forward to. I myself went through all of the same exact emotions and feelings when my son left for boot Camp 5 years ago. He and his brother wold go spend a month with my mom during the summer but they were only 60 miles away and could call any time they wanted to. When Trevor left for Basic, even though he was married, had a family and had been out of our house for 9 months, I couldn't talk to him to see how he was doing or drive by on my way home to make sure everything was ok. He only lived a half mile away and if he needed anything we could be right there, I did drive by on my way to work and on my way home to check on m daughter in law and grand daughter every day without them knowing. <br/> Now Trevor has 5 years under his belt and every time I read a post or comment from one of the new parents about how bad they are missing their SR's it brings back those same feelings that I had 5 yrs ago. I can speak from experience and tell you that this will be the longest 8 weeks of your life. You will go through every emotion you can think of and some that you never knew of. the 1st day it utter hell watching with pride as your son/daughter/spouse walks away from meps inn that line of recruits and knowing you won't see them for 8 weeks turns the tears of pride into tears of fear and pain. How will they make it, are they ok, are they eating enough, are they getting enough rest, are they handling the breaking down period from individual to team player aspect, Do they know that we still love and support their decision? So many things are going through your mind at this time and then you set up all night waiting on that 15 second call that says mom/dad I'm in Chicago and safe bye, click. We didn't receive this call it went to Sage and she called us to let us know he had made it to Chicago. She was in tears as she didn't get the chance to tell him that she loved him before the click at the end. <br/>
We rocked along for about a week or so and Sage got the sailor in a box she cried, mom cried and dad played support for his girls. Then came the form letter in week #2 and we had something to look forward to. We had an address we could write and letters were written and sent everyday, and we waited. Week #3 came around and on Wednesday I opened the mail box and there was a familiar hand writing on a little white envelope with a Navy emblem on it. I ran inside and gave it to mom as I knew she was in need of a lift in spirits. She opened that letter and the first words she read was Mom i love you but what did I get myself into. The water works flowed for the rest of the evening. Nothing I could do except read the letter myself and try to assure her that he was just homesick and that we had always known this day was coming when he would be away and nothing we could do but support him. She wrote seemed like a hundred page letter to him that night that had tear stains all over it. When letter #2 came the following Wednesday the mood had changed and he was starting to get comfortable with his surroundings and was actually helping other SR's out that were struggling with some of their tasks.<br/>
By the time week 5 rolled around you could tell by his letter that he was doing as I had always taught him and grabbing the bull by the horns and making lemonade out of the lemons that were in front of him. He was rolling with the punches and his demeanor had taken a 180 and he was now challenging himself to get more out of this than he had ever expected he would get. PIR rolls around and when he walked into the Drill hall with the other 88 sailors in his division, He was in the Band so it was easy to pick out his division, I saw right away that the 18 year old kid that had left MEPS back in June was no where to be found and this fine, nicely dressed young man/sailor stood before the world ready to conquer anything and everything it could throw at him and defeat it. <br/>
trust me parents when you get to the point with your sailor that we are now with Trevor. As much as you wanted them to be the outstanding citizen and always do the right thing,i t will never compare to what they are doing. My grandmother always said she wanted to live long enough to see what Trevor became as an adult because she knew he was bound for great things. She carried around a small copy of his graduation picture with her until the day she passed and would tell everyone how proud she was of him. I hope this helps some of you out to know that at the end of this 8 week journey you will have a completely different person from what you dropped off at MEPS a short 8 weeks ago.</p> @ Brian Nelson, I understand…tag:navydads.com,2013-07-18:2150375:Comment:3447002013-07-18T06:46:32.391ZRoger Reedhttps://navydads.com/profile/RogerReed
<p>@ Brian Nelson, I understand what you are feeling. I was just there 1 week ago today. I used to always tell my 2 kids that when they finish High School they need to either go to college or go in the military. My daughter (who is younger) made it clear at an early age she is gonna go the college route. My son did not want college and wanted the military. He signed up for DEP back in December '12 and I knew he was leaving but it still hurt. He is my first born. He has only been out of High…</p>
<p>@ Brian Nelson, I understand what you are feeling. I was just there 1 week ago today. I used to always tell my 2 kids that when they finish High School they need to either go to college or go in the military. My daughter (who is younger) made it clear at an early age she is gonna go the college route. My son did not want college and wanted the military. He signed up for DEP back in December '12 and I knew he was leaving but it still hurt. He is my first born. He has only been out of High School barely over a month. I would suggest that you read the stories from the other parents on this site and if you have specific questions? Ask the people from NavyDads or Google it. It has really helped me. Also, look up the boot camp schedule. Knowing what they do will relieve your mind. The first week sucks because you are in Receiving and Outfitting but once you get assigned to your company (normally by the 4th or 5th day) and start week 2 it starts to turn into a fun challenge. The finish line is in sight. You should get your daughter's belongings in a week or so. I just got my son's yesterday. The form letter which has all their ship, division info on it is to follow. I am still waiting myself (only been 8 days). Any questions or concerns please ask. I am a newbie and don't know jack but I am a future sailor's parent as well so if I don't know I have no problem polling the audience if need be.<br/> <br/> <cite>Brian Nelson said:</cite></p>
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<p>@ Michael Huff, thank you for being the first one to reply after me. I have waited like 6 days for a response. You are not the "odd" one, you sir are our rock and pillar of strength. Your words are gonna comfort the rest of us. I received my son's box yesterday and that gave me the closure I needed. No secret or clandestine notes saying I gotta get out of here found. That just re-affirmed to me that he is alright. Now all I am waiting for is his Form letter. The first week of Navy Bootcamp…</p>
<p>@ Michael Huff, thank you for being the first one to reply after me. I have waited like 6 days for a response. You are not the "odd" one, you sir are our rock and pillar of strength. Your words are gonna comfort the rest of us. I received my son's box yesterday and that gave me the closure I needed. No secret or clandestine notes saying I gotta get out of here found. That just re-affirmed to me that he is alright. Now all I am waiting for is his Form letter. The first week of Navy Bootcamp in Receiving and Outfitting is the worst. After that? You start your schedule and I know my son cannot wait for week 4 weapons training and week 5 fire school. I am proud of my son serving his country as well and cannot wait for the PIR. I will post the day. I am expecting it to be Sept. 6. If by any chance your son graduates the same day I would love to shake your hand as a Navy Dad and as a respectful civilian paying homage to your military service.</p>