NavyDads Admin, Tim

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Shawnee, OK

United States

Profile Information:

Your Sailor's First Name (Please Do Not Post SEAL Names)
ET-2 Trevor
What Is Or Will Be Your Sailor's Rating (Job Classification) - ex. ABE, AM, GM, etc
AEF-AECF, ET
Describe A Little About Yourself (your IP address/location will be checked::
Proud Father of 2, 1 in the U.S. NAVY and Grandfather of 2
What Brought You To This Site:
My son is currently serving
What Were Your Feelings When Your Sailor Joined The Navy:
Was proud as hell, The second time around was just as proud
What Is Your Relationship With Your Sailor
Dad
Please Share: How Did You Find Us?
Wife was on navy4moms so I started looking for dads as there was way to much drama there for me.

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  • Annelle, Aaron's Mom

    Thanks for the kind welcome!
  • Roger Reed

    Hi Tim and thank you for welcoming me aboard. I have already did some extensive searching on this web page and found a lot of useful and pertinent information. Not to mention the stories form the other parents that really put to rest any worries, concerns or fears I may have.

    Thanks Again,

    Roger

  • Ramon Oli

    Dear Admins, thanks for the warm and informative welcome aboard!  I let my Daughter know I joined NavyDads and passed along the many thanks you expressed.

    If any parents out there have any questions about experiences with children in NROTC, please let me know.

    I am very glad to be a part of this community.
    Go Navy!

  • Gary Ray

    Thanks for the warm welcome! I'll be sure to poke around for info, ask question that I need to and help out where I can. 

  • Richard L

    Appreciate the warm welcome, Tim. Had to laugh at your profile comment regarding Navy4Moms. Was also there while our son was in Nuke Power School. Couldn't agree with you more. :) The drama was threefold that, however, when I joined a Facebook group (for the 1st time ever) made up of parents whose sons were going through Air Force basic training with my son. Thanks for the immensely valuable and precious time you volunteer to the operation of this superior site!

  • Fred Holloway

    Thank you all for the warm welcomes.  It's really nice to be part of such a supportive community.  My wife Cindy and I are traveling from Oregon to attend our son Chris' PIR on 30 Aug and it's going to be quite a reunion.  We will be able to share the day with Chris, our daughter is coming up from Indianapolis to be with us, and my division Chief from when I was on active duty is coming to the PIR as well!  I haven't seen him in over 30 years!  It's also my first trip back to Great Lakes since I went through boot camp in 1976.  It's going to be a great Navy day!  We will try to make it to Sarge's meet & greet on the 29th, but for now the best I can do for that is use that good old Navy term TBD!  

  • Jeff Barrett

    Thanks a bunch for the warm welcome.  We have one daughter that served 4 years and a son-in-law as well.  There is great pride we have in knowing that our children have decided to serve our country and be Navy. 

  • William James Weatherspoon

    Tim, thanks for the welcome. Glad to be a part of Navy Dads. My son just deployed last night.

  • Steve Jantzer

    thanks for the welcome Tim. Brianna graduates on 10/11. got a bunch of letters from her already and I'm excited as hell to see my sailor. She holds a really soft spot in my heart and always will, after all shes my little girl. I got to try and hold it together when I see her, even though I know it will be hard as hell.

  • Joe Willoughby

    Admin TIm, 

    Thanks for the warm welcome!  I'm so proud of my daughter Jessica and I'm traveling to Great Lakes next week to see her graduate from basic training.  The website has been very helpful and I've been able to follow along with my daughter's training schedule the entire time. 

  • Steve Aiello

    Thank you Tim!

    This site has already answered many of my questions. What an informative and valuable tool!

    Thanks to all who make NavyDads happen!

    Steve

  • dean w. calhoun

    I want to thank you for emailing me,I am the grandfather of sr calhoun devin l

  • ralph hinshaw

    thanks for info.  been trying to get info on my sons ship.  he will be serving as an ATI, ATAN on the USS America.  seems to be quite the ship.  He is home for the rest of the week on his first leave, and will be going to "c" school in Lemoore, ca. for a month and then on to san diego for 4 months to get all his sea quals in and do more barracks support. it has been a good time for him so far.  ended up top in his class of 15 and the squadron of 80, all from a kid that didn't want to get a "b" in high school. he missed his test for e4 but the new chief said he would get him into the delayed test.  not much time to study tho.  once again thanks for keeping this site up. 

  • Tom Burgdorf

    I am a well seasoned Navy Veteran myself, having spent 12 years in the service and many of my peers and subordinates, went on to full retirement, He is my youngest son was born 2 years before I got out He leaves for boot Oct 3.  I had the luxury of being able to sit down with my son and explain many of the things he will face. He choose not me to join and follow my foot steps as to even what I did in he Navy the ACEF Program. I may be able to provide information for those that do not know what to expect. Thanks Tom

  • David E. Sholly

    Thank you for your support.

    My thirty year old son was placed in ship 05 on Oct. 1st., he was stripped of his uniforms and told he was being separated because he had A.D.D. when he was a child. He has not taken any A.D.D. medication for over a couple of years. He is a honest person with integrity, so while suffering from fatigue and sleep deprivation in his second day of basic, he informed the Navy of his medical history at Last Chance. He had informed his recruiter of this prior to his enlistment, the recruiter wouldn't allow him to sign a wavier, instead he ordered my son to not admit that he had A.D.D... I can't believe the Navy doesn't value honesty and integrity.

    He asked to sign a wavier and to be re-instated. They refused and told him he would have to be separated then he could sign a wavier and attempt to re-enlist.

    They had observed him for four weeks, during which time he successfully passed his academic and physical exams on the first try. They also administered a A.D.D. exam which he passed with minimal A.D.D. indicators. I have contacted my Senator asking him to look into this issue. My son hasn't done anything wrong, he was honest and forthright about his medical history, but It appears the Navy is currently using every excuse to separate trainees. He called me and informed me that they were going to take up to six weeks to out process him and give him an other than honorable separation. His wife, who is an E6 Staff Sergeant in the active duty National Guard, looked up the types of separations, he doesn't have a negative law enforcement or drug record which are the only examples of what would warrant a less than honorable separation.

    Now he is discouraged, disappointed, and depressed, he feels he has failed, I told him that he didn't do anything wrong and it's not his fault. The Navy recruiter is the one that has failed my son by not letting  him sign a wavier prior to his enlistment.

    Do you have any suggestion on how to protect my son from receiving a negative separation that will have a lasting negative affect on his future employment?

  • Andy March

    Thank you Tim for sending me to the Navy enlisted rates information. At the time I was filling out the info I tried to leave it blank because I didn't know his rate. I have now changed it to S-Pact. I just knew that he was going in as a sailer apprentace. Last year the Sampson battle ship came to Seal Beach and we toured it as a family. At that time  we were asking questions of the sailers and they were saying have a job before going into the Navy. By Ryan taking this route he went in without a specific job, but I understand that he has 6 months to find one.

    Ryan had earned his Eagle Scout in the BSA and went in as an E3. Any comment as to how this will affect his path?

  • Edward Steve Kilanowski, Sr.

    ...........   folks,      while I can appreciate your 'form letter' type emails and helpful hints/ and navy nomenclature, etc. from admin staff and 'friends' ,  it would have been more pleasant  to note that someone had first read my profile..........   to learn that I was a retired navy veteran with four kids with service experience..... three of which were (are) sailors,  and one in the Air Force.    so,  your welcoming 'letters' really are not 'one size fits all',   and really are quite basic in the info provided or do not apply at all.    but,  thanks for the invite into a unique fraternity of brothers....   and I hope that all your kids enjoy a terrific career path through Navy training, interesting duty, really great travel and beyond.     talk to you again soon.   Ed

  • Gary K.

    Thank-you for taking the time to answer my question

    Gary L Keller

  • John Powell

    Thank you so much Tim!

  • Curt Queen

    Thanks Tim! Our boy arrived 11/19 at Great Lakes and we are so proud of him! 

  • John Scribner

    Tim,

    Thanks for the help on this.  Sam is our youngest son and the only one in our family to enlist.  We're immensely proud of him but it was tough to see him go.  This site will make the journey that much easier.

    John

  • James MacFarlane

    Thank you, for welcome, appreiciate it hopefully will learn what im  doing on here, so can learn all I can what my son will be doing thx again

  • Dan Clearwater

    I want to thank you all so much for letting me be a part of the group. I have toadmit i feel extremely lost at the moment my son left the day after thanksgiving for sasebo and his rank is undefined i haven't heard from him yet so i dont even know what ship he is on,anyway thanks again.I think this group will be a great source of info and support. thanks Dan
  • Les S. Aquiningoc

    Thank you Tim!   Joined the site only a couple days ago and it's become my Go-To site for practically all my queries regarding my son's enlistment, most especially Boot Camp & PIR info.  Thanks again and blessings!

  • John Stepek

    Thank you Tim, so far to date since my son went to boot camp, this site has been a tremendous source of information on what he is experiencing.
  • BobbyZee

    Thank You Admin, Tim(: Good to be aboard) My wife is on navyfor moms .com They have some of the same Guidelines and (OPSEC)  so I have a heads up.I didn't know about navydads util I was looking  for Roxanne's new home (boat).She got her hardcopy on tuesday. She loves navy life but she can't make it home for xmas. her first away from home. We are just begining to learn. Thank a lot for having me aboard BOBBY

  • Michael James O'Neil

    Thank you very much Tim!
  • Anthony Giardillo

    Thank you Tim, I appreciate all the helpful info and insight. Look forward to many years on this board

    Anthony Giardillo

  • Robert L. Townsend

    Thank you Admin Tim.  It is appreciated what you and this site do for all the families involved.  This site is a great source of information and very comforting to know exactly what my son is experiencing along the way, what quals, classes, training and preparation he is being tested on.  Thank you!

  • Bob Lotz

    Thank you for your kind words. Now I will go learn Bravo Zulu so I can talk like a Sailor's dad! :)! 

  • Mary Buss

    Thank you for the add! I'm very excited to be part of this group. A little about me: I'm a wife of a sailor, my oldest and only daughter is a sailor and is stationed in Va, and my oldest son, Roald ( we call him Rj because everyone try's to change his name to Ronald.. Or they have an issue pronouncing it) Rj is half way through bootcamp.. His PIR is at the end of the month. People always ask me.. How do you do it? I respond.. What do you mean? My husband and daughter were deployed in 2012, seperate commands, but out if pure luck got to spend a week together overseas while deployed.. I'm proud of my husband and my children's choices.. They chose to enlist to better themselves.. To get their education as well as see the world, and most importantly.. Protect our country. My husband is a YN, my daughter is a PS, and our son is a HM.. I couldn't be prouder! I'm glad I found this group... Have a great day everyone!
  • John H. Kirby II

    Tim, thank you for the warm welcome and nice words of encouragement. My son has less than a week before leaving for Great Lakes. He is very excited and looking forward to the experience. We are very proud and anticipating a wonderful career for him.

     

  • Jared Ray

    Thank you for the welcome . Today was one of the hardest days in my life, my son shipped out today and we watched him swear in and then later watched him get on the bus ,I didn't realize how hard it was going to be . I know it will get easier over time  as I write this we are waiting on his call to say he got there. I am very proud of my son .

  • Rod Allen

    Thank you Tim. I have been using the website frequently. Jonathan's PIR is one 21 Mar 2014. He went in as an E-3 and signed a 6 year contract. His advanced training will be at Great Lakes, IL.

    We are trying to get solid information on how long we will be able to be with Jon after PIR. I have heard 2 days to a few hours. It would be helpful to know this information so we can book our trip accordingly. I am handicapped and the closer to the base, the better. From what I have read, handicapped setting is limited and on a first come, first served basis. My wife is going to talk to "Sarge"(?) about transportation, hotel rooms, and things to see. If you have any ideas or comments, please feel free to enlighten me.

    Once again, thank you for your support,

    Rod Allen
  • Earl Nichols

    Thank you Tim for your comments. I am very proud of my Grandaughter in the step that she has taken. I was not in the Navy but in the Army and Vietnam Nam in 1962-65. I know what she is going through in RTC based upon my past experience. I am glad to see younger generation take this step so that we can sleep at night knowing that out country is in good hands.
  • Marco Mattucci

    Thank you Tim for your kind words and encouragement.  It is a milestone in his life and I could not be happier with his choice to serve our great nation.  I look forward to getting the first letter from RTC so that I can start counting the days!!!  Thanks again to you and this EXCELLENT community.  We do live in the greatest nation on the globe!!!

  • Uwe Schwenk

    Thanks! It is much appreciated.

  • Kelly Mills

    Thank you Tim. Our SR will graduate on 3.14.14. We can't wait to get our hands on him. Thank you for all you do! ⚓️
  • Todd "GovGeek" Godchaux

    As I mentioned to your co-admin, Gary, sorry for the delay in my response. I'm very grateful for the effort and extremely valuable information contained in this site. I keep coming back for the content even though I'm not very responsive in the social mechanisms just yet. I have passed on the kind regards to my daughter and she's humbly accepts them. I'm a proud father!

  • Ed Murphy

    Hi Tim. Thanks for the welcome message. Great website full of helpful information.

  • Shelby Wooton

    Hi Tim Thanks for the message my sons PIR is Apr 25 an I will not be able to go to the graduation so I have been watching live an just saw a post from someone from ship 13 div 151 an was wondering what school their SR was going too again Thanks

  • Michael Craig Blue

    Tim,

    Thanks for the welcome. My son Jordan arrived at Great Lakes yesterday. I am excited to follow him on his path

    Mike Blue

  • Ladyrocker

    Thanks for the add....looking forward to meeting new moms and dads going through the same ......8 days and counting.

  • Mark Kedrowski

    Thanks for all the warm welcomes.  My daughter Amanda is assigned to the Roosevelt CVN-71 as Avionics Tech at VFA-11.  This month marks her 1 year anniversary, I could not be more proud of her.  She starts her C School next month and then from what I understand they are going on a 13 month deployment because the CVN-71 is being reassigned to San Diego, and they are being relocated with it.  I want to thank you all again for the warm welcome. Mark Kedrowski Retired Deputy Sheriff Bexar County San Antonio, TX

  • Scott & Kristi Wood

    Thanks so much, Tim.  This has been a useful site so far.  Our daughter reports tomorrow (4-27-14) for OCS in Newport.  So excited for her and for the changes ahead. 

  • Melanie Snyder

    Thank you Tim, I am a bit overwhelmed at this point. Got the box and letter today so now I am trying to figure out travel plans. One day at a time I guess.

    Thanks again

  • Margaret Requena

    Thank you so much Tim. So glad that I found the Navy Dad group to help this Navy mom along the way. I will truly take advantage of the resources NavyDads have to offer me. I have shared with my son Sean all the thank you from all of you for his service. I'm so happy to be a part of the NavyDads family.  Go Navy!!! :)

  • Margaret Requena

    One more thing Tim. . .Please thank your son Trevor for his service for me.  So proud of our sons. . .HOOYAH! 

  • Bill

    Tim, thank you for the warm welcome.

  • Geoff Jones

    Thanks Tim -

    I've already gotten lots of good info, and looking forward to spending more time here to get even more. What a great service this is! Be well -

    Goeff