Sorry Robin. I just spotted your reply. You are free to call, but I would only caution you in becoming a pest. They can make it harder on your sailor. I'm only saying this because we've seen it. So only call if you need information pertaining any follow up you will need to do before your SR gets home.
It's mostly up to the recruit to talk to legal and whomever else.
Welcome to Navy Dads Robin. I wish it were under better circumstances for you. Here is a link to one of our groups. It's our Ship 5 group. There is lots of information for you to help through the process.