My son is engaged?
Hello,
I got an email from my son saying he is engaged.He sent me some photos and, I told him congrats. Ok now IO am awake. I am not sure how to broach the subject without alienating my son. I know he was inexperienced before he left. I expected him to gain experience in the nNavy but I wil;l be honest I am a little shocked by the marriage engagement. Neither he or the girl have even went to school yet.I am trying to process this and figure out why he would jump into this, as he had only a couple girlfriends. Could it be if they get married they would be stationed together? Also. has anyone else gone through this before? thanx for any comments GOD BLESS OUR SOLDIERS AND SAILORS
Jason Plougher
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I know, But i am really just still shocked to be honest, I have asked him to call me to talk but so far nothing.I will support him but it just seems so fast IDK lol thank u Jim
NavyDads Co-Admin, Jim said:My only suggestion is to wait until after A school to get married. They can request billets together, but it's not a guarantee.
I know that you don't want to start a rift between you and your son, but just let him know that from our experience, don't rush into marriage while trying to get acclimated to Navy life.
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