Very disappointed

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Permalink Reply by NavyDads Admin (Paul) on May 23, 2013 at 11:55pm

here is a link to our ship 5 group- there are numerous numbers and links there.  Let them know.....maybe you can influence how they treat those slated for sep in the future: http://www.navydads.com/group/ship5formerlyship17

Permalink Reply by David Garland on May 24, 2013 at 12:02am

Thank you Paul, I was really worried about voicing my feelings here but it sure helps to have a place to vent. Thanks again for the link.

Permalink Reply by NavyDads Admin (Paul) on May 24, 2013 at 12:20am

That's the nice thing about Navydads- since we are not affiliated with the Navy we have a little more latitude with what we can say and not.   There is a lot of info at that link...Jim is our Ship 5 expert and can probably give you more info for contact info if you need.  As well, I went out on a limb and posted your comments (don't worry- it has my name on the post) to RTC's FB page.....let's see if that shakes a few things up

Permalink Reply by David Garland on May 24, 2013 at 12:53am

Lol, lets hope so. It's great folks like you and everyone on this site that aren't afraid to stand up and get things done. I can't thank you enough, God bless.

Permalink Reply by NavyDads Co-Admin, Gary on May 24, 2013 at 7:58am

David, sorry to hear about all of this... Good Luck and God Bless!

Permalink Reply by David Garland on May 24, 2013 at 8:52am

Thank you Gary

Permalink Reply by Troy Baker on May 24, 2013 at 9:18am

Sorry to hear this!  If he hurt it in boot camp and it wasn't pre-exisiting, I would have him talk with a lawyer before he signs anything as this could cause him problems in the future.   I know they can easily separate for any reason the first 2 years, but it he was hurt might be worth fighting for.

Permalink Reply by Bill Black on May 24, 2013 at 11:58am

David, you vent with dignity and professionalism! Anyone reading what happened to your son would feel the same way and many of us would probably not handle it as well. You have every right to be upset because this is not just any SR, it is your son! I know there are no words that will console you or your son at this time. However, I am reminded of a great quote "Many want to stand on top of the mountain, but few are willing to climb it." While your son did not make it to the top of the mountain, he sure was willing and tried his best to climb it. That separates him from the vast majority! It also says a great deal about his character. So while this is a very difficult setback for him at the moment, I have a strong suspicion that he will emerge a stronger person and will find another path in life that will lead him to success. You have every right to be proud of him for his willingness to serve our country. God bless him and you as he seeks that new path!

Permalink Reply by Marvin on May 25, 2013 at 7:40am

Sorry to hear about your son's situation. I would like to think our government could do better. Thank you to your son, his family, friends, and yourself for making the decision to enlist, and wanting to serve for our country. I will probably never meet him, but would love to have the honor of shaking his hand, and telling him thank you! With the world, and our government the way it is today it takes a lot of courage, heart, and dedication for a young man or woman to enlist! My hat is off to your son, and family!

Permalink Reply by Brad on May 25, 2013 at 9:49am

Talk to a lawyer? Seriously?

Troy Baker said:

Sorry to hear this!  If he hurt it in boot camp and it wasn't pre-exisiting, I would have him talk with a lawyer before he signs anything as this could cause him problems in the future.   I know they can easily separate for any reason the first 2 years, but it he was hurt might be worth fighting for.

Permalink Reply by Troy Baker on May 25, 2013 at 11:18am

Yes, I would not leave for a medical reason unless it is properly documented, especially if it happened in boot camp.  It is like a workplace accident and there could be future issues and costs. Even a Navy lawyer can help, they are at your service.  And if you want to fight you should be able to.

Brad said:

Talk to a lawyer? Seriously?

Troy Baker said:

Sorry to hear this!  If he hurt it in boot camp and it wasn't pre-exisiting, I would have him talk with a lawyer before he signs anything as this could cause him problems in the future.   I know they can easily separate for any reason the first 2 years, but it he was hurt might be worth fighting for.

Permalink Reply by David Garland on May 26, 2013 at 8:16pm

Thank you too everyone for your words of encouragment and wisdom,they really did make a huge difference.Tuesday will start a new week with high hopes he will make it to legal and be home soon and we can start to put this nightmare behind us.I think we may start off with a week of fishing and snorkeling in Panama City Beach Fl. I think I deserve it.......well he does too I guess. lol. He is going back to his job at Lowes and finish his schooling to be a surgical tech. I will keep u informed on the upcoming week. Once again thank you all. You guys are AWSOME!!

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