Thank you for welcoming me to NavyDads I found this web site while searching for information
relevant to my son in the Navy. Like all of you, I could not be any prouder of him and all the
brave men and women that serve in our military. Certainly, freedom is not free!
My son enlisted after 2 years of college because of his patriotism and sense of duty.
I wanted him to finish college, but he promised me that he will, while in the NAVY.
He became an AT and worked on F-18s aboard the Roosevelt during OEF as well as the Bush,
on its maiden voyage. Once he returned, he was on land duty in NAS JAX, sort of closer to home
and did in fact finish college. He loves the Navy and was awarded several NAMMs
and Blue Jacket of the Year. I don't mean to brag, but it's hard not to;
especially when I compare him to so many of the directionless youth of today.
After finishing college, he decided to submit his package for OCS to become a Naval Officer.
He was selected and is in the current class and we did receive
some letters from him. He's looking forward to seeing us when he graduates,
providing the US Marine DIs let him live! Thankfully, he trained physically, academically
and was mentored on how to succeed. So far so good as he went from indoctrination candidate
to Officer Candidate with 7 weeks left to go. Thanks again. I feel as parents of sailors,
we are all part of an extended family. Even my son's friends from his station(s) call me dad.
The best of luck to all of you and your sailors. I look forward to corresponding soon.
Warm regards,
Irv Gelbart
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Wow what a great story, thanks for sharing. Our daughter also went to college for 1.5 years and then decided to join the Navy out of patriotism. We are hoping she finishes school too. She has been in for almost 2.5 years and was so busy, but is finally getting to the point where she is going to take some classes again. Bravo Zulu to your son! I also want to make a shout out to those Navy Dads who are veterans (I'm not). Your in depth knowledge is very helpful for those of us on a crash course of all things Navy! thanks again.
Thank you very much for your kind words and gratitude. I feel the same way about any parent of a service member. Certainly, without our sons and daughters in uniform, our freedoms would be in peril. Yes, we had "the talk"; besides the one when he became an adolescent.
As he approached the end of his second enlistment, he did consider leaving for the private sector. In talking with him, we talked about the lack of job security today, the lack of pensions and rising cost of health insurance, but most of all, the importance of enjoying what you do. That is paramount! The bottom line, he loves the Navy, he loves what he has done and the prospect for maximizing his potential, while at the same time, enjoy a nice salary, benefits and someday, a pension. I myself retired from our police department at 52 years young with 30 years of service. In the meantime, my friends who are professionals like CPAs, doctors, lawyers and from other fields are still working; probably into their 70's. Yes, they have a lot more money than I, but you can't put a price on quality of life and not having to have the structure of going to work every day. My freedom enables me to do the things I enjoy, with my family. I think this point weighed heavily with my son; amongst the others, and he decided to stay in the Navy as a career. We are attending his OCS graduation in December (If the Marine DI's let him live!), but he is doing well physically, mentally and is in the second phase, as an Officer Candidate, prior to the Applied Leadership Phase, before they graduate. having the freedom to see my son graduate means the world to me and my wife and our other adult kids.
Coincidentally, upon his graduation he will be an Ensign with a single "butter bar" on each collar. I retired as a police Lieutenant and wore the exact same collar insignia as he will. I have mine still, from 1991 when I was promoted. I just finished polishing them up to Navy standards because they were a little tarnished, and I intend to give him mine as they should shine on him, and reflect his new found leadership of a Naval Officer.
Again, thank you for your kind words. God bless you and your family for raising a "warrior", that is so needed to protect our freedoms.
Warm Regards,
Irv
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