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Wow...I'm so sorry to hear of all this. What has gotten into him? I would think that you could mail the copies of the paperwork to him and ask him to mail them back, but it sounds like he's not going to do that. I assume that he is on a base far from you. If you want to contact someone, start with his command master chief. He would be up the chain first.
The Navy doesn't like when their sailors don't take care of business.
I'm so sorry...
Well, it sounds like he's making idle threats against about calling his chief. At this point, you have nothing to lose by calling him. If you drove down there, you will most likely not get to see him at all. You will not be allowed onto the base where he is. I don't see what good it will do by driving down there.
As hard as it is...maybe you should think about cutting all ties with him and his girl. I would hate to go that route, and I'm sorry your stuck with paying off his vehicle, but maybe it's time to cut your losses.
I know this is not what you want to hear, but he is his own man now with adult decisions. He belongs to the Navy. You might also contact the ombudsman there. I will see if I can find a contact number for you.
Here is the ombudsman phone number:
NASC Ombudsman:
850-512-9359
I honestly don't know if there is anything even they can do. I do know that the Navy is big on family. However, if he is the habitual liar that you say he is...you might not get too far.
Please keep me informed. If there is ANYTHING we can do for you, please don't hesitate to ask.
Jim Gramza
Sorry to hear of these issues....may want to call the Legal department there since it involves legal documents and you are not getting anywhere
Naval Legal Service Office Command NLSOC
(850) 452-5575
When it comes right down to it you need to protect yourself......talk to a lawyer and see what options you have. Might cost $300 dollars but you'll have some legal advice and then you can decide and eventually walk away from the situation.......
I can't imagine what you're going through right now. I get the feeling that he thinks he can't be touched because he's in the Navy.
Paul is right though...you need to protect yourselves against any leagal action on his part.
We hope nothing but the best for you all...I think we would also be interested to know how this all plays out and what the outcome is.
Good luck.
Any news! If there is, I hope it's good!
I'm so sorry to hear about your continuing problems....hopefully at some point your son will come to realize that behaving this way over something really as inconsequential as a car is a poor excuse to alienate family. I'm glad you are following up with legal help- you need to protect yourselves. He is an adult and has made his choices good or bad.
Sharon, I'm so sorry to hear all this. But you are doing the right thing for yourselves. I totally agree with Paul that you need to protect yourselves against any legal action he may take.
I sort of know what you're going through. I have a daughter that has alienated me too. We have no contact with her or her daughters. I hope you all some day can find peace.
Jim
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